I loved him and He loved me But I can't Convert into Muslim

Hello Friends , This is the story of my very good female friend.

She is a Hindu Girl (very good looking) but belong to very traditional family in Madhya Pradesh. She got a chance to study outside home in Jammu & Kashmir, Being in a very crucial age of love and new aspiration, the age when we start believing everyone out there without seeing their hidden intentions, She was fascinated by Kashmiri men looks. But she was a shy girl and didn't try for any men and had a very good girls friends circle.


1 year passed after joining the college, the girl hostel in which she used to live started filling with lots of chit chat on phone, affairs, chats, gossips about boys, bf-gf stuffs and it was like love in the air. Everyone started falling for someone. She was very innocent but, the need of love craving inside her slowly. Then One day, one handsome boy (her Junior) came into the picture, From the first day, while giving fresher introduction to seniors, He was introduced to her as Md. Ali Jafar. She didn't notice much him but later her girls circle informed her that He was looking differently at her and started teasing her. She ignored it but it was a different feeling for her.

In college campus, he found many times asking about her and staring her sometimes. He showed himself a very innocent guy. She was continuously getting news about him that He likes her. One day That boy came and talked to her in a very well mannered way. Then he started contacting her more oftenly. She was taking it lightly but she didn't know that the age of her will not take it that way.
Talking and talking to him, she also started falling for him. She was living her dream. The boy was so soft spoken and well mannered that was making her fall for him more. Slowly She realised that She can't live without him. The charm of the boy made her so easy to fall for him day by day. She realised that He is very different from the other Muslim mens who talks about Jihad (to convert).

They spent 5 years in relationship, after finishing her college she joined a big MNC in Bangalore. She waited for him to come and join there too. After 1 year He also joined the same city and another MNC.

The day came when her parents realised that now its time to get her married, she was freaked out and
told everything to his Boyfriend. He told that He even wants to marry but his family will not support until she CONVERTS into Muslim religion. She refused and went home, agreeing to her parents, She saw some good men for arrange marriage by her parents. But when everything was about to be finalised, she realsed that she can't love that his future husband because she is in love with her boyfriend. The boy side people said yes for the marriage and asked girls side to agree. At the last moment, girl refused to marry. Her parents were trying to convince her and finally asked whats is the problem, she said She has a boyfriend. Her dad  asked her to call her Boyfriend to meet him, Her Dad was very disappointed but somehow got ready for the marriage but She gave another shock that She cant because the guy is a Muslim. I loved him and He loved me But I can't Convert into Muslim



The situation was totally out of control and her father was in full shock and crying unstoppably.
Her father was asking that this was the day for which He didn't wanted her to go out for study. He said " I knew that study outside have become new trend to fool family and enjoy the boyfriend - girlfriend lifestyle. But why the hell a Muslim boy, Couldn't you find a Boy of any other religion except muslim."

6 months passed, there was no conversation between her and her father. Then one day her Dad broke his silence and agreed to whatever she wanted to do.
And allowed her to live the way she wants.

One and half more year passed, She enjoyed her boyfriend with no restrictions in a beautiful city Bangalore where people don't bother about anyone's life.

One day the boy told that He wants to go to some London for study further and She was very much worried to wait for him for so long. But She was determined to wait for him.


Then, she was in a long distance relationship with a muslim guy. Slowly She was realising that where is the problem in getting converted to muslim religion after all she loved him. And all religions are good. She discussed these things with me. I just asked her one simple question, can you just prove that he loves you like the way you love him?? She asked how to prove that?? I said just ask him one simple question that "WILL HE CONVERT INTO HINDU FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR LOVE?", I said her that there is no problem if you want to get convert for him, but just ask this question to him and see the reply.
Just have a small litmus test.

She did it and came to me to tell the reply. Her eyes and body language were not matching. She came and sat next to me very silently. Slowly her eyes became full of tears and she said that its not fault of him, it because their strict religious policy he can't. She was trying to convince to herself more than me. I realised and didn't comment seeing her emotions. All I wanted to tell her that She is destroying her in all way. Sometimes we think that only a particular person can provide them happiness and without them life sucks but very fortunately this is not true, There are endless opportunity out there for finding true mutual love and happiness and even a better person.

 2 years passed, He returned from London.
Lots of gifts, kisses and hugs, She received. He told her not to convert for him, and he is ready to marry her as she is. As there are culture of live in relationship in Bangalore, India. They happily moved in together. They made love and joy. She gave him everything flowing in the river of love .

One day, She got pregnant and she was little surprised and asked him how it happened, we used protection then how did it happen?. He said he has no idea about that. She started suspecting this matter but chose to forget this.

Her next plan was to keep this child and then He refused and asked to abort it. They had discussion about that, The conclusion came to the point to keep the child on 1 condition.

The one condition was again ..............to CONVERT.and become his wife. She was slowly got ready for it until one day, She got shocked with his hidden, cruel intention.

She was well prepared to marry him and change her religion and follow the path of his religion.
But one night, suddenly she woke up and saw that He is not there on the Bed. She looked everywhere but he was not available.


Then She heard some voice coming from upstairs. She slowly went upstairs and what she heard was heart shaking, He was talking to his one old Kashmiri friend.
He was announcing his marriage with a Hindu Girl. He was happily telling that He made it what he wanted from his childhood dream of converting at least 1 NON-MUSLIM into Muslim religion, She sat with her shocked heart there in the corner and tried to listen him every bits of his voice.
He was talking


                       "I did it mere bhai! tu kab karega sadi wadi, tu bhi kisi Hindu ko pta,
                         Mere paas bahot offer the fir bhi maine isko isliye chuna kue ki
                        ye Hindu hai aur ek baar convert ho jane de fir dekh tera bhai kya
                       gul khilata hai"

There was lots of Laughing both sided on phone. Then He said
                       "aur kya ek baar sadi ho gya fir sab meri marzi,
                        jyada se jyada kya hoga, TALAAQ TALAAQ TALAAQ
                        Hahahaha"

She literally got her floor snatched from her feet. She was in shock and losing her consciousness.
She realised that He is ending his phone call, Then she suddenly ran into her bed room and pretended to sleep.

She felt like a scapegoat and part of a conspiracy. She remembers her all love life she spent with a guy having very different agenda, She was not able to believe the fact She heard about him,

He looks so innocent and handsome cute, how could he do like this? She was asking a very weird question to herself. She remembers all memories they spent in flashes inside her mind.

She remembers the way they met, he looked, approached...proposed and everything was perfect and He always looked so innocent and loving, Then next day she spied his laptop and found many pictures with different different girls in very inappropriate ways and..and about them He never discussed.

She left him and went her parents home now.

I don't know weather Will She be ever able to have faith in love again or not.